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My Journey to Employment

One of the underlying reasons why I chose to go to New Zealand is to get to know myself better and to see myself in a new light, far from my previous issues back in my home country. I want to know more of what I am capable of. I want to know what I can contribute to the new country I am in now.

One of the ways I may do this is through finding a career here. As an immigrant, there are a thousand things you have to settle before landing a job here. In my experience, I had to settle my visa (more on that topic in another blog post), assess my current capabilities and find ways on how to fill the gaps on the capabilities that employers want and need, think about what I really want in a job here, and find a worthwhile place and company to work for.

 

Background on my previous jobs

I was initially an HR professional given that that is the most common track a BS Psychology graduate in the Philippines takes. A few years into the job, I decided to shift to Marketing and had several marketing jobs in a retail company, and a food and beverage company.

 

What I want in a job

I have found that my personality, interests, and soft skills match more with marketing so when we decided to go to New Zealand, Howell and I knew that this would still be what I will pursue.

My last work was already a managerial post back in the Philippines but upon coming here, we knew that we definitely would have to be content with whatever position I may land in, just as long as it is still a marketing work. It was easy for us to decide on this but way more difficult to follow through with the decision.

Our location, even though we are in the capital of New Zealand, did not have a lot of opportunities given my previous work experiences. Most of the jobs related to the industries I have been in are in another part of New Zealand so my options were way too limited to start with.

I have applied for positions ranging from Assistant to Coordinator to Managerial work. I might have submitted over a hundred of applications in the course of 4 months and out of all those applications, I was interviewed by 3 companies for different marketing roles. One of the weaknesses of my previous work experiences was that I did not have much work experience with Digital Marketing, something that most companies are looking for here in New Zealand. As months passed, I was slowly losing hope that I would ever find a job that I was really interested in, but I knew that life still needed to go on.

 

What I did during my months of unemployment

For the first 4 months of our stay here, I had no choice but to wait for my visa to arrive and so I ceased all efforts of applying for work. During those months, Howell did not have work yet as well and so we were able to spend a few good months together.

We found activities that entertained us. We went outdoors as it was summer when we arrived here. We went swimming and hiking. At home, we were able to spend time with Howell’s family as well. We usually played games and watched movies together. When he started work, I was the one left at home so I had to find ways to spend my time wisely, to veer away from worrying about finding a job all the time.

I started several projects, read books, and established a healthier lifestyle by learning to cook healthy food and exercising regularly. I also enrolled in an online Digital Marketing course to beef up my CV and to have some working knowledge I can use in applying for a job.

 

What did I really want?

With the months that I was able to reflect and relax, I was able to list some of the things that I wanted my future job to have:

  1. A marketing role
  2. Something that can be identified with New Zealand (as I am already here and I wanted to fully immerse in the country)
  3. A work where I can still have time to do the things I want to do (swim, go to the gym, spend time outdoors, do some artwork, read, write, do house chores and take care of Howell)
  4. Good working environment (a boss and colleagues I can work with)

My list is quite ideal but a girl can dream!

 

Goodbye, unemployment!

I persevered in spite of the odds against me. I did not stop sending out applications and heeded the advice of the people around me. They told me to continue hoping that there will be somewhere that I may be fit to work in. They encouraged me to call potential employers and be upfront with them so as to show my interest for the job.

Finally, a door opened up for me! It is a Marketing Manager role at Staglands Wildlife Reserve & Cafe. Upon seeing their job ad, I immediately sent my CV and called them up to ask some details regarding the job. It is a part time role at a location an hour away from our place.

I instantly fell in love with the place when I arrived for my first interview. Words will be difficult to describe it but luckily, I have taken a few pictures to give you a glimpse of what the place looked like.

 

I was offered a welcome drink prior to the interview. One of the owners herself lit the fire place to warm me up.

 

The animals are so tame. Look how this peacock approached me as I entered the park. I was given food that I may feed the animals. Below are pictures of some chickens on a tree, a bird I am not familiar with, and the goats which I liked the most. There were pigs and trouts and other animals as well but I was not able to take pictures of them since I was totally enjoying my stroll.

 

Some notable landmarks like the Secret Garden, the Old Bush Settlement, the Barn, and the Deer Park

 

It is a bit far from our place but it is a 3-day work week so I still get to have 4 full days I may spend as I like. The employees are all friendly and each of the work they do are quite interesting. I was able to meet both of the owners as well. They are down to earth and very practical (one of them called me up as I was writing this blog to check if I may be able to report for work tomorrow). I was so sure that this is where I wanted to work.

Two interviews after and I was offered a job. Thank God for my wonderful references in the Philippines for helping me get an offer.

 

My takeaways

It was a tough 8 months for me. I am in a foreign land with completely foreign circumstances and an unknown future. Everything I did was done prayerfully.  I know and I am convinced that all these are God’s work in my life. This is just the beginning of my own journey here but I am secured that the One who brought me here will equip me with everything I need to complete the journey. The future is yet to unfold but I am confident of what the good Lord has planned for me and my family.

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Is Migrating Just About Packing Your Bags?

When one decides to migrate and build a life in a foreign country, would you just pack your bags and leave? If you are one who has gone through this, you know this isn’t the case.

As Howell and I decided to finally take the leap and leave for New Zealand, we knew that we had to do more than just fitting our stuff in a box. We put a huge amount of value on relationships, family, and all the intangible things you leave when you go. We have been fortunate enough to have several months to prepare before leaving and so we did what we can to leave every precious intangibles that we have in place.

Family

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My sister and I have quite a strong bond. We practically had no other choice (kidding!) but to love and cherish each other since she is the only sibling I have. We grew up knowing that we are each other’s best friends and I know that nothing can ever change that.

We were not able to spend much time a few years before we decided to leave, though, since we were busy living our lives that we were not conscious enough to spend time with each other but we made sure we built better memories right before we left. We ironed out issues we might have chosen not to face had we not left.

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We built memories as a family with our recent addition, Howell. We did not know what life would bring us when we leave so we knew that the memories and the time we have spent with them will be a good foundation for a few years of our lives that we will spend away from each other.

Relationships

One thing that we also firmly believe in is that our relationships shape us into the people we are today. These relationships kept us strong and gave us a sense of purpose and direction. And we know that even if distance might keep us far from these relationships, they will continue to be our stronghold, in good and in bad times.

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The above picture is our Men’s and Women’s group at our prayer group, Ang Ligaya ng Panginoon. The latter picture is our bible group study from The Navigators. More than being our support group, they are our friends. We can run to them for practical advice as a newly married couple. They are also there to pray for every area of our lives. We continued to meet with them in formal group settings and in fellowships outside. They have given us precious nuggets of wisdom that we have carried going here.

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We also built new memories with our friends before we left. We had out-of-town trips, talked nonstop about our life and future plans with them.

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Lastly, we made sure to pass on the things we have learned through the years. We have built relationships with the younger generation so we can share our knowledge and personal experiences from where they can also learn.

Practical Life Skills

Living abroad entails a lot of adjustments. Everything is new. Issues and concerns on our new life here can considerably be lessened by learning the basic skills of home management before we left. We learned the basic house chores like cleaning our home, cooking for ourselves, shopping, budgeting, and managing our time well to make room for the things that we need and want to do. We are able to adjust fairly well in our new life here because all the basics are in place before we left.

In securing that all these matters are in place, we were sure that once we left, we will be ready for our adventures ahead. We knew that no matter what happens, we will have no regrets in the future because all our relationships are strong and our basic life skills are packed.

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Why New Zealand?

Of all places I could be in at this point in time, why New Zealand? Why leave the Philippines?

Each immigrant has his/her own set of reasons for leaving their homeland and settling in a foreign country. For Howell and I, the following reasons capture the major chunk of the reasons why we chose to settle here:

Howell’s family

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Papa Lui left the Philippines in 2007 and the whole family, except for Howell, left in 2009. I met the family once before we got married when I visited New Zealand in 2014. We did not have a lot of time to really get to know each other because of the distance. Admittedly, it is definitely difficult to get to know people through online chatting alone.

Apart from this, Howell missed a lot of time apart from them and we felt that for him to fully understand himself and his family, we need to take time to be closer to them in proximity. It is amazing how you can fit the puzzle pieces of a person’s personality by just knowing and being with his family. We believe that by spending time with them, it will be a good foundation for us to build a family of our own.

God’s call

Living abroad is definitely a big leap of faith and as a family, Howell and I discerned for our decision to leave before we left the country. We believe that at this time, God has a mission for us here in New Zealand that we cannot fulfill if we were some place else. The Lord, in His goodness, has called us here in fulfillment of His promises to us years before Howell and I even met. How we are to see that fulfillment is something that we will have to wait and see as it unfolds before us.

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Financial Stability

This reason is attached to the previous reason I have specified: God’s call to us. I grew up in a family where my parents worked so hard to provide us with everything that we want and need to the point that I grew distant from them, all because I felt that there was so little time to spend with them for them to get to know me. We want the kind of family where we have the freedom to spend time with our future kids. In order to have that kind of family, we needed financial stability.

New Zealand is one of the countries where even their minimum wage is definitely good. Here, even though Howell is the only one working (as of the time being), we are able to live a fairly comfortable life. We are hoping that someday soon, I may also get a job here so we can save up and eventually attain the financial freedom we are going after.

Home for Street Vagrants

One of the things that we also want to accomplish with our financial freedom is building a home for street vagrants in the Philippines. We call them taong grasa back home. Most of them, apart from roaming the streets and being homeless, have already lost touch with reality. These are the people that we wanted to reach out to. So if we wanted to build our own family and this shelter for them too, we have got to have a lot of resources.

This is our vision. These are our personal reasons why we chose to leave.

So why New Zealand? Perhaps because it opened its doors for us. Perhaps because the grass may indeed be greener on the other side. We do not know what this country holds for us yet but we ought to find out soon.